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It's that time of the year again.
Time to wrap up presents, eat like there is going to be a global famine and ask three simple questions:
Now as you read this keep in mind that it is mostly written for my benefit, so I can reflect on the year and have this journal to refer back to later. I do it in public because I think you may enjoy it and be able to learn from it in some way.
Every year I set a few goals for myself. These are last year's:
Here's how I performed:
In January Vicky and I moved to Bristol (UK) for a new chapter of our life.
Moving to Bristol wasn't a walk in the park. We started from scratch in a new house and a new city (and Vicky even started a new job!) with no friends nor contacts.
Nevertheless, we have found a beautiful flat that we adore and Vicky has made it "homie" as only she can. We have found amazing people here and made a few new friends. Some of them might even become long term friends :)
So far we like Bristol but it does have its problems (homelessness is a very big one). Even if we decide to move away from Bristol (Bath?) I think we'll stay in the South West for the foreseeable future.
On the 12th of August I got down on one knee and asked the love of my life to marry me. Incredibly, she said "Yes".
Thus, we are getting married next year, on the 16th of May, in Tuscany. Organising the wedding has turned out to be more stressful than I anticipated but also very rewarding. If everything goes well, the next "Year in Review" post will have many photos of my wedding.
In last year's "Year in Review" I complained about my sedentary lifestyle. Things have definitely changed in 2019.
First off, moving to Bristol and getting a desk in a co-working space means that I get to walk at least 30 minutes a day.
But by far the biggest health change this year has been sticking to a routine of 3-4 workouts per week, every week.
In August I even went as far as getting a Personal Trainer (Adam). It's not cheap and sometimes I ask myself if I should save that money for other things (like, you know, the wedding) but God if I can see the results!
Adam pushes me beyond, way beyond, my limits and the results in "just" 5 months of training with him have been impressive. My strength has grown dramatically, both in the upper and lower body, and so had my stamina and flexibility.
To put all this to a test (and to have something to look forward to) I've signed up to the Bristol 10K and I'll probably sign up to the Tough Mudder too.
On the 28th of July I attempted my first 72 hours fast. I actually failed when there were 4 hours left on the timer (I had a sugar crash and almost fainted) but it was nonetheless a terrific experience and one I'm sure will be repeated in the future.
In total, I did four 48+ hour fasts this year.
Kind of big news: after 7 years as a pescatarian, I've reintroduced meat in my diet. A couple of things here:
As I mentioned earlier, this year has been a great year for reading. I've hit my goal of 25 books. Again. And here lies the problem.
Hitting arbitrary numbers doesn't satisfy me anymore. Actually, sometimes it feels like a aimless endeavour. What is more important to me is: how much of what I read translates into actionable insights? How much had any meaningful impact in my life?
Also, every person who reads a lot knows that there are only a few books that have meaningfully impacted their life. And these are the books that should be read over and over again.
In the words of Naval Ravikant:
I don’t want to read everything, I just want to read the 100 greatest books over and over again.
So next year I will change my approach and instead of setting an arbitrary number of books to read I will re-read the 10-20 books that have had the biggest impact in my life. I haven't made a list yet but I will soon.
This year I haven't travelled as much as previous years but I still managed to visit 6 countries. Notable mentions: Boston & Barcelona.
In October Vicky and I went to Boston to see our friends Justin & Barbie. Boston was great but we absolutely loved New Hampshire (where Justin's parents live). The colours of the autumn (pardon... fall) were just amazing. Something I hadn't seen in a loooong time.
In June I went to Barcelona, alone, for a mental detox of 3 days. It wasn't my first time in Barcelona but it was my first time at the Sagrada Familia and it blew my mind. The entire building, its history, colours and shapes were so powerful, almost mystical.
I have felt a feeling of awe before for things made by nature but never for something made by man. Until I saw la Sagrada Familia.
2019 has been, overall, a successful year for business.
I've finally rebranded Maître to ReferralHero (I don't know why it took me so long). Revenues have grown this year but there are still many things that need to be improved.
I've a product and marketing roadmap outlined for next year and I can't wait to get started.
In June I started working on a new product, SparkLoop.
SparkLoop, in a nutshell, is ReferralHero for newsletters. It's a tool that helps people with a newsletter grow their email list organically through an ambassador program.
In September I got my friend Louis Nicholls to join me and help me build and sell this product. I really like my relationship with Louis so far. We seem to be on the same page about the important things but also keen to challenge each other when we think it's necessary.
We still don't know how far this project can go but we are confident it can turn into something really exciting.
My goals for next year are:
What are your goals for 2019?